The Universal Power of the Law of Polarity can have a profound effect on the results in your life.
And I cant wait to tell you why.
This particular universal law is one of my favorites.
Each and every one of us has endured living life through bad times or overcoming negative situations, but can also almost instantaneously revel in the happier, more positive times.
The clear ‘flip flop’ can effect us all. But can you recall how an extremely difficult situation you may have experienced in your lifetime can actually turn into a surreal ‘life’s lesson’ ?
Many would call it: ‘a blessing in disguise”
Well when you keep reading this blog you will have a better understanding of how the Law of Polarity does work in our lives and why people should NOT really get overly concerned when their lives begin to take a downward spiral! Keep reading.
Okay, so there you are sipping your morning latte, taking your child out for a walk, joking with your co-workers, visiting friends, or spending time up at the cottage with family.
With a big smile on your face you are full of excitement. You are LOVING LIFE.
What you are experiencing is a normal, daily routine with much anticipation looking forward to upcoming exciting new adventures.
And then, suddenly out of nowhere like a bolt of lighting you are struck down.
A sudden and powerful negative impact that strikes without warning, can disrupt your emotional equilibrium and wreak havoc on your mental state.
It has the potential to devastate your emotional, physical and spiritual well being that has the power to affect everything in your life.
IF YOU ALLOW IT TO.
STRESSFUL SITUATIONS
We all have experienced these stressful situations because it is part of life and try as we may it just isn’t all that easy to overcome these events. Why do these events effect us so much?
Because 80% of our lives has an element of being completely planned out, so it would be easy to understand that when a negative situation does occur, our very first reaction would be automatic. — negative.
We become fearful of situations when we do not know what will happen. Perhaps it’s the future loss that would inevitably occur and the changes that will take place.
Do you recall back in the 1920’s when highly influential wall street executives were committing suicide? jumping off buildings to their death due to the stock market crash,…
Apparently the loss of their money and the ‘so called’ prestige they felt they had amongst their peers completely devastated them. Perhaps they realized, they simply had no other alternative, so they killed themselves.
It is the fear of the unknown.
Statistically human beings when subjected to these stressful events switch over to the ‘other side’ The negative side as we tend to react, rather than respond. Fear, doubt and worry become the ‘norm’ until we decide to take control of the situation.
A NEGATIVE EVENT THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE COULD BE GOOD FOR YOU!
What if I were to tell you that these negative events can actually be very good for you?
You are probably thinking, Really, YOUR NUTS !! (lol, yep, sometimes!)
These stressful events can quite easily catapult you onward and upward to bigger and better results, even though at the time it may not seem that way.
That was the devastating situation I experienced a very long time ago, which turned out to be a Godsend that I will be forever grateful for. I can clearly remember this happening to me, like it was yesterday.
As a teenager I was out for a summer drive with my boyfriend when we were tragically involved in a serious head on collision that landed me in the hospital for several months, bedridden, immobile and in traction. My foot had been completely crushed.
What began as a beautiful summer evening turned into an absolute nightmare.
I can vividly remember my parents sitting with me in the hospital room when the doctor walked in and told us that because my injuries were so severe I would probably have a difficult time walking, and I definitely would have to walk with a cane. Being involved with sports all my school years and dancing ever since I was a child, which I loved, would be taken away from me.
I sat there in total disbelief and started crying uncontrollably. MY LIFE WAS OVER.
I REACTED to hearing this dismal fate because i was focused on the negative situation and not concentrating on a positive outcome.
I can remember my parents calmly thanking the doctor for his opinion but adamantly refused to accept his diagnosis and told him that their daughter would definitely be up and walking again, and SOON!
The love and support I received from my family and friends was amazing!
Think about it,.. had we listened to the doctor’s advice and resigned to the inevitable my life would look much different right now…
A MAJOR CROSSROAD
That particular day was what I would consider a major ‘crossroad’ for me as I had to make a choice to which direction I would take, either positive towards growth, or become another casualty of a negative demise and be swept downward into a negative spiral.
Thankfully with the love and support I had along with the upbeat positive attitude I developed, I did far more than survive, I completely transformed.
The moral of this story is not just about a young girl who endured a devastating accident but to explain that she chose to look at the positive side of the event even though the work to recover was extremely tedious, for a very long time.
Because of this situation and the fact that I had alot of time on my hands while recuperating I began to read books on personal development, self help, human potential, energy and metaphysical which is why the results in my life have far surpassed my wildest dreams.
And I continue to study and learn to this day.
And this is the reason I run an international wellness company today, helping people untap their fullest potential, to become the best they can be all over the world.
Now let’s talk about one of the universal laws: the Law of Polarity.
It teaches that everything exists as opposites—light and dark, good and evil—not as separate forces, but as different degrees of the same thing.
This idea parallels Isaac Newton’s Third Law of Motion: for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
While Newton’s law relates to the physical world, the Law of Polarity applies to our thoughts, emotions, and experiences. That ‘no thing’ the majority of people don’t know anything about.
In essence, everything has an opposite, and one cannot exist without the other.
When something negative arises, a positive counterpart exists on the other end of the spectrum—sometimes hidden, but always present.
In relationships, this appears as natural contrasts: joy vs sorrow, closeness vs independence, dominance vs surrender, fantasy vs reality, love and hate.
What do we tend to focus on?
Healthy connections are not about eliminating these differences, but learning how to move between them with control, balance and understanding so both sides can co-exist to develop and enjoy a loving, long term happy relationship.
Most people are so focused on themselves and their own reputation and EGO, they completely miss this narrative. How sad is that?
THERE IS AN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE IN EVERY SITUATION
So, in regards to what we experience in our everyday life this relates to so many variables: there is a positive and negative to every situation is there not?
How about: light and dark? love/hate, a front and back to a book, calm/angry, a left / right, and to again mention, there is good and evil, just to name a few.
Listen, the north and south poles are great examples of being equal and opposite, and remember, one cannot exist without the other.
So again to reiterate, if a horrible situation or occurrence has happened to you in your life, then it makes absolute sense that something unbelievably, incredibly amazing is going to come out of it…
What are you focused on??? hmmmm
Most people will always focus on the negative because that is how we have conditioned ourselves to behave, ever since we were young.
ARE YOU DODGING BULLETS RIGHT NOW? WELL GET EXCITED,…. THE BEST IS YET TO COME !!
Look back in your own life experiences and remember a time when something really, truly terrible had happened to you.
Can you remember these times and what you emotionally, mentally and physically went thru?
Now ask yourself did you need to go thru all that anguish??
If you reflect back on that situation you may find that it actually turned out to be a phenomenal life’s lesson. As mentioned earlier it is a blessing in disguise.
More importantly the strength of character developed in any of these challenging situations will carry you forward STRONGER, MORE RESILIENT, and much more POWERFUL, then ever before.
Basically you become your best self. And I guarantee, from personal experience, these stressful situations will move you forward and upwards thru any of life’s future traumas. Oh, yea, without a doubt!
I would highly suggest you try to avoid going thru these instances, mulling them over and over again in your mind; WHY? because your mind can move you so quickly back into this triggered event you’ll experience the whole ugly situation in the present moment. And, haven’t we ALL done this from time to time, hmmm?
Even though an event happened to you decades ago, or perhaps you just got hammered with something last year, you will physically, mentally and emotionally get caught up in that feeling all over again. You will, without a doubt begin to relive that terrible moment of the past along with all the anger and upset that happened to you.
Unfortunately, you will begin to internalize these events into your subconscious, keeping it alive & well. A decision you made, that is fully your responsibility.
Don’t do that to yourself my friends.
Embracing adversity will positively propel you forward into personal growth so you will be able to turn a trial successfully into a triumph throughout your entire life. When you truly grasp and understand the Law of Polarity it will change how you perceive every single event you encounter.
Instead of immediately reacting with fear, frustration, hurt, or despair, perhaps try to pause and ask yourself a more empowering question that is:
Where is the opportunity in this?
This shift in awareness allows you to move from being a victim of circumstance to becoming the creator of your own experience. Every negative event carries within it the seed of an equal positive outcome, but it requires a higher level of awareness, a bit of patience, much courage and a strong belief in yourself to uncover it.
People dont tend to have alot of faith in themselves these days, I wonder why that is??
For example, the loss of a job may initially feel devastating, yet it may open the door to a more fulfilling career path or inspire you to pursue a passion you previously ignored.
Similarly, the end of a TOXIC relationship, although painful, can lead to a deeper self discovery, with stronger boundaries, a healthier self love and respect for oneself so you can ultimately begin to enjoy refreshing, healthier and happier relationships in the future.
You can finally regain some peace & quiet by removing the trash & upset you may have been surrounded with.
Listen to me,… on the other hand if a person continues to choose to focus solely on that negative side of the polarity they could become stuck in a cycle of blame, guilt, resentment and limitation that could very well destroy them by preventing further growth and progress in every aspect of their life.
Sadly, I see this all the time with my coaching students who cant let go of a negative past event. Because they continue to focus on the past they miss opportunities in career advancement, love, health, financial opportunities and relationships that could move them forward positively…
You only have one life to live my friends.
Unfortunately, without really thinking about the situation they could very well continue to be stuck in their own sorrow which can effect their entire life, missing one opportunity after another.
The Law of Polarity is Neutral
The Law of Polarity is neutral. It IS our perception and response to the event that determines whether the outcome becomes positive or negative in our lives.
By consciously choosing to look for the opposite good/positive side in every challenge you can gradually begin to align yourself with happiness, growth, resilience and possibility.
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Over time, this positive mindset will not only strengthen your emotional well-being but this new positive ‘change of habit’ will also empower you to navigate life with greater confidence.
Along with a new understanding that no matter what happens, there is always another side, ‘a positive side to your story’ waiting to be uncovered.
Much love and blessings to you all.
Lori Gradley
About Lori’s international wellness company, Splendid Inspiration. An international wellness company, based in Canada dedicated to helping individuals live their lives to the fullest.
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